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Divorce

Some couples separate and transition toward divorce. Rice Law attorneys represent transitioning families in divorce filings and proceedings in North Carolina.

Rice Law attorneys are also experienced in negotiating and representing clients in complex divorce areas such as child support, custody, property distribution, and spousal support.

For most divorces in North Carolina, the courts require that spouses be legally separated for more than one year.

Why some choose divorce

No matter how good a relationship was in the beginning, spouses can grow apart, resentful, or disappointed in what their personal life has become. This can lead to blame, denial, abuse, infidelity, betrayal, or abandonment. When marriage is no longer possible, many couples choose to separate and divorce.

Taking steps toward divorce

Divorce can be emotional and stressful, and the choices you make during this time may affect the outcome of your settlement or contested court case.

Decide if divorce is the right option

In the U.S., women initiate about 75% of divorces and the reasons vary from unhappiness and disatisfaction, to abuse, betrayal, and abandonment. Talk to your spouse about the situation—can the problems be resolved through marriage counseling or is the conflict too great?

Examine your financial situation

Determine if your income covers monthly basic necessities to live separately. Consider your income and expenses, and check your credit report. While you may be interested in estimating child support or alimony, exclude these from the examination, as you don't know exactly how much a court will award. If you're financially unable to live separately, consider where the extra income will come from—a friend or relative, second job, career change, or other avenue. And if you're in an abusive relationship, it's important to leave now, regardless of financial considerations.

Consider your children

Divorce can be especially difficult for your children. Answer their questions honestly, while avoiding temptation to harp on your spouse's flaws. Divorce affects them as well, and they will appreciate your openness. However, don't involve children in adult issues.

Be ready to negotiate

Though it can be difficult to concede anything to your spouse, especially if abuse or infidelity is a factor, compromise can save you anxiety, time, and money. An attorney can point out your options, helping you carefully negotiate division of assets, child custody and visitation.

Carefully choose an attorney

Choose a law firm that will represent your interests, rather than immediately signing on with a law firm that was shared by a neighbor or friend. Consider this list of nine things when selecting a divorce attorney that will protect your children and your assets.

Resources

Attorney Mark Spencer Williams answers legal questions on Avvo™